The Female Hot Spots






























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



One of the best outcomes of the women’s movement is that we finally get to study what satisfies a woman sexually, at least openly.  Before the Sexual Revolution, female sex was customarily considered to be for baby making alone.  It was okay for a man to enjoy it, but not acceptable to discuss the woman’s experience.  Once women were allowed to celebrate their sexuality, we were finally able to get cracking on what we’d all been dying to know – how do you make a woman orgasm?  So don’t get discouraged.  We’ve been studying it for less than half a century.  That’s a mere blink in human history. 

The good news is we are making new discoveries every day.  Just a few years ago the g-spot was considered a myth.  Now with more women willing to explore themselves, there has been stronger and stronger evidence that it exists.  Every woman I know who has found hers would agree.  Plus, we know all about the clitoris.  Let me break down these pleasure centers for you. 

The Clitoris

Most men are uncomfortable with this description, but the clitoris is the woman’s penis.  If you examine it closely, you will see that it does actually resemble a small penis.  It also functions in a similar manner to the penis.  When a woman is aroused, it fills with blood and becomes erect, just like your member. 

What exactly is the clitoris there fore?  It exists solely to give her pleasure (yeah, I know, you thought that was why you were there).  All female mammals have a clitoris.  Well, except for the spotted hyena, whose clitoris, vagina, and urethra are all the same thing.  Anyway, moving on. 

The G-Spot

Named after the man who discovered it in the 1950s, Dr. Grafenberg, it wasn’t until the 1980s that any extensive follow-up research was done.  Like I said, many still debate the existence of the g-spot, but if you put in the right effort, you’ll eventually find it. 
The g-spot is located on the top wall of the vagina just above the pubic bone.  The best route to its discovery is through digital penetration.  Have her lie on her back with her knees up.  Slide in one or two fingers with your palm up about 2-3 inches deep.  Keep your fingers curled as you stroke the area just above the pubic bone.  It is best that she is very stimulated at the time, as that causes the g-spot to engorge.  If barge right in, that area will be tiny, and your efforts will be pointless.  However, once she’s warmed up and you tap that g-spot, she will have orgasms like neither of you thought possible. 
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Hair - How to make it your erotic tool !




























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


Hair plays a significant role in most cultures.  Elaborate wigs were introduced as a sign of social status in 17th century Europe.  Geishas spent years learning how to create intricate styles that reflected their success.  In the 1960s men grew their hair long as a sign of rebellion, and then in the 70s women cut theirs short when androgynous was the style.  In the new millennium, almost every actress and model uses hair extensions to create flowing, Lady Godiva locks.  With hair so much at the forefront of our consciousness, it’s a wonder that it’s so widely overlooked as a tool for erotic pleasure. 
Whether it’s long, short, curly, straight, light, or dark, your woman probably has hair.  In fact, it was probably one of the first things you noticed about her.  Since then, you may have begun to view it as that thing that gets in your mouth when you’re making out and chokes you during sex.  Well, it’s time to reclaim the hair as a source of pleasure!  Here are a few tricks you can use to amp up the eroticism.

  • Brush the loose hairs out of her face.  There doesn’t actually have to be anything there, but the gesture shows that you are considerate of her.  Feeling valued by you is key to her physical attraction to you.  If you show that you’re paying attention to her welfare, even in minutia, she will feel closer to you, and therefore happier to let you get inside her.

  • Use her locks to tickle her face, neck, and wherever else you can reach.  Slow and light caresses with the ends of her hair will both relax and entice her.  It will mimic the feeling of being stroked with a feather.  But don’t let her have all the fun.  Have her do the same to you, only she’s not limited to just your upper body. 

  • Go ahead and pull it!  Now, before diving right in and taking a handful, double check with your partner to make sure there’s no weave action you may be yanking out.  When you’re passionately kissing, grab a handful at the base of her head.  Yank it back, and kiss her neck.  Make sure this is firm but gentle.  You don’t want to pull any hairs out, as that will interrupt the erotic energy.  Also, if you’re inside, or even hitting it from behind, go ahead and yank on her mane.  Make sure you know your girl well before attempting this move.  If she has any issues with dominance, she may feel degraded.  However, if she has dominance fantasies, that one will send her over the edge!


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Touching Bonds !


























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


When you first start seeing someone, the lust is uncontrollable.  You can barely keep your hands off each other.  There is hardly a moment when you’re not physically connected.  Then a few years down the road, you hardly touch except to make love.  Unbeknownst to you, this can prove to be detrimental to the relationship. 


Men don’t require much physical attention to feel close to their partners.  Being allowed to put it in her warm place on a regular basis is enough to feel a strong bond.  However, women react differently.  They love to be touched and caressed.  If not given enough physical contact outside the bedroom, they can begin to feel objectified and devalued.  Men typically don’t understand this because they are not fully appreciative of what it is like to be a woman. 
Women spend much of their lives fighting objectification.  From the day she got boobs, men of all ages have been leering at her sexually.   It’s a life-changing moment the first time a girl catches one of her dad’s best friends looking at her ass.  When she is in a relationship, she does not want her partner to make her feel the way she did when she caught “Uncle Larry” checking her out. 


It’s not too difficult to avoid coming across as Chester the Molester.  You just need to learn to express some physical intimacy when you’re not in the sack.  That doesn’t mean fondle her breasts while you’re sitting on the couch.  It means employing other forms of touch into your relationship.   
One of the greatest intimacy builders can be simple hand holding.  Whether you’re walking down the street or sitting in a movie, grab her hand just to hold it, but not to put it on your crotch.  It will make her feel warm and comforted.  Don’t be afraid to kiss her fingers or stroke her palm.  The sensations will increase her desire to touch you with more body parts. 


Another under-utilized bonding tool is hugging.  Wrapping her in a warm embrace, with no pretenses of poking her with your boner, makes her feel secure.  Hold her while you chat about your day.  Stroke her back, and give her little kisses on the nose.  Gaze into her eyes for a long period of time.  Studies have shown that prolonged eye contact is an intimacy builder, and intimacy is what she wants to feel with you. 
Lastly, kiss her.  Kiss her just to kiss her.  If you can manage that without humping her leg, the emotional reward she feels with greatly outweigh the physical reward you get from sex.  Don’t just kiss her to humor her, really appreciate what she gets out of it.  The more you bond physically outside the bedroom, the more she’s going to want to bond in the sack!


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Breasts - Mastering the Twin Peaks !

































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


Whether you’re a leg man or an ass man, every man is a breast man.  Breasts have more nicknames than anything else on the planet.  Gossip blogs are constantly reporting on celebrity “nipple slips.”  The mere hint of Janet Jackson’s bear breast during the Super Bowl Half-Time Show caused one of the largest controversies in media history.  So what is this crazy obsession we have with breasts?  Is it just because men don’t have them?  Is it some oedipal reaction to having been breast fed?  Whatever it is, men like breasts, and they like them a lot. 


One of the most common complaints women have about their partners is that he won’t stop touching her boobs.  Everything they do together, he must somehow incorporate the tittay-grab.  When he’s watching TV, he’s playing with her nipples.  While she’s doing the dishes, he’s massaging her mammories.   I know, I know, they’re there, they’re awesome, and you just gotta touch them.  In the long run, this could end up hindering your rack rights.  So unless you’re up for a booby-free existence, let’s go for quality over quantity when it comes to funbag fondling.  If you’re willing to practice a little self control, she will actually love to have you all over her chest.


The cardinal rule of breast handling is never pull down!  Women spend billions of dollars every year on bras that lift them up and surgeries to add perk.  If you’re yanking downward on them, it feels like you’re undoing all that work.  She will actually get the heebie-jeebies, which is not the sensation you’re going for if you’re trying to warm her up.  Concentrate instead on upward motions.  Stroke, cup, and fondle, but never in a downward motion. 
So now you know in which direction to touch her, but now you need to know how.  Do not just nose dive for the nipples.  Yes, nipple stimulation works, but it’s much more effective to tease around them first.  Grab one and give it soft bites along the underside.  Repeat on the opposite breast.  If you give one attention, don’t forget to give the other one the same amount.  Just like you don’t want her to play favorites with your testicles, she doesn’t like it if you over-indulge one of her boobs.  You can kiss, suck, lick, and caress your way up to the nipple.  Once you get there, she will be so riled up that the feeling of her nipple between your teeth will bring her to near orgasm. 


There you have it.  With proper attention paid to both breasts and avoidance of the nipple until prime time; you’ll go from simply being a breast man to becoming a breast master.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Below the belt - Some of the Best Spots !


















by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


You probably think this is going to be a guide to the clitoris.  Well, you’re wrong.  There are places below the belt you can touch her besides between her legs.  I will break it down into regions for you so it’ll be easier to comprehend. 


The booty


I’m sure that you go for the booty-grab at every moment you can sneak on in.  She leans in for a kiss – grab the booty.  She gives you a hug – grab the booty.  She’s doing dishes – grab the booty.  When you’re in bed, there’s also the booty smack.  Before you incorporate this move, be sure she’ll be down for it.  I don’t mean you should stop while you’re railing her from behind and say, “Excuse me, miss, would you mind so much if I smacked that booty?”  You should be comfortable enough with her to know in advance how she’s going to react. 
Then there’s the more sensual approach to touching her booty, and that is the tickle.  You can use your fingers, a feather, or anything else lying around.  Start with her back.  Caress her so lightly that you hardly make contact with her skin.  Move down toward her lower back.  Hang out there for a while as her body relaxes.  Trace the sides of her hips, and finally, right where the thigh and the buttocks meet.  Move away, and come back every once and a while.  It will send shivers through her whole body.  Especially to the spot you want to stimulate. 


The knees


The knees are an often overlooked area for pleasure.  You can give fluttery little kisses around the kneecaps, or tiny bites on the sides of the knee.  The real pleasure center here, though, is the back of the knees.  Now, most women are quite ticklish on the backs of their knees, but if she’s relaxed, it can give exciting sensations similar to when you tickle under her buttocks. Make sure you use only the lightest of touch, but caressing her behind her knees will give her a thrill even she’s not expecting!   


The feet


Never underestimate the power of the foot massage.  It’s become a bit of a cliché, but its effectiveness has stood the test of time.  Women typically wear all kinds of crazy shoes.  If you give even five minutes of a good foot rub, it will ease the tension of the day.  Use slow movements to make it more sensual, and add some lotion to your palms to help glide along the foot.  She will be so grateful, she’ll want to come up with some way special to thank you!


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Back Door Betty


























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 
Ah, anal sex.  Depending on the person, it is the greatest fantasy or the worst turn-off.  Some women run in fear at the thought, while some practically beg for it.  There are men who will do anything to get in the backdoor, and others who couldn’t imagine putting it in the poop shoot (FYI, not even all gay men like anal).  If you’re one that wants to see what all the fuss is about, here is a step-by-step guide to making it a pleasurable, or at least tolerable, experience for both. Warning: this is a high-risk activity.


  1. Lube it up…a lot!  Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own lubrication.  Use a water based lubricant.  You can get something flavored if you want to put it on her before you stick your tongue in there.  However, never, EVER attempt anal sex without lubrication.  It will cause tearing in her anus, not to mention a lot of pain.


  2. Relax!  Have her take some deep breaths.  Perhaps you can give her a massage first to loosen her up.  If she is a little ball of tension, it causes the sphincter to tighten.  If that’s tight, you’ll never get in.


  3. Slip a finger in.  Start small, especially if this is her first time.  Meaning, use your pinky.  Once you’re all lubed up, glide it in and out slowly and gently to get her used to insertion.  Next try your ring finger.  Really work it out.  Insert it, swivel around, tickle.  The more time you can spend the better.  If she can’t handle your finger, she sure as hell won’t be able to handle your penis.  That is, and I hope for your sake, if your penis is larger than your digits.


  4. Now you’re ready.  Don’t go jabbing your member straight into the no-no hole.  You will be immediately kicked out of bed, maybe forever.  Particularly amongst anal virgins, this needs to be gradual.  Tease the anus a bit, and then slide in just the head.  Pull out, and then slide it in a little deeper.  Keep doing it until you can comfortable get it all the way in.  Don’t add speed or pressure until she is ready for it.  Well, now you can take it from here.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Forgotten Hot Spots






















by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 

Okay, champ, so you know where the clitoris is.  Congratulations, you’re head and shoulders above the average 14-year-old boy.  However, there is so much more to pleasing a woman than just stimulating the clit.  In fact, dive straight for the sweet spot, and you may be down there for hours.  Unlike you, she cannot be ready to go in 2.2 seconds flat.  But fear not, her whole body is covered in trigger points you may not even be aware of.  Here is a guide to some erogenous zones you may have forgotten about. 

Ears

Nibbling on her little ear lobes is just the tip of the ice berg.  Anywhere you lick her ears will be exciting for her – although, full on tongue in the ear hole should only be saved for special occasions.  Lick her just under the lobe, and then gently blow on the spot.  It will send shock waves directly to her genitals.  Also take the time to whisper something dirty while your mouth is that close.  If you’re in private, tease her nipples with your fingers for added effect.   
Neck

Once you’ve conquered the ears, you can move down to the neck.  The places you want to concentrate are along the jaw line and just above the collar bones.  If you apply pressure to the larynx, she may feel like she’s being choked.  Kissing along her jaw will relax her, allowing her mind to focus what you’re doing.  Stroke her collar bones lightly, and then kiss or lick in the hollows just above the collar bones, and in the sternal notch – the dip in her throat right above the breast bone.  Her whole body will tingle with the sensation. 

Lower back

The part of the back that meets with the buttocks is full of little nerve endings.  If you lightly caress her there, you’re bound to run into one of her little ticklish spots.  However, if done correctly, it can be an erotic ticklish.  Before you venture into tickle territory, you should make sure she is good and relaxed.  If she’s all riled up, it’ll make her jumpy instead of horny.  Your efforts will be counter productive as she’ll squirm with every touch.  However, if she’s mellow, these little sensations will give her a thrill.  Don’t over do it!  Run your fingers over her without aggravating the tickle reflex too much.  Otherwise you’ll have another squirmy girl on your hands, and you’ll have to go back to square one to calm her down. 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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The Clitoris: Okay, What is It?


























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 

So you want to be a sexual maverick.  Well, everyone worth his erotic salt knows that it’s all about the clitoris.  It’s that tiny well-spring of pleasure that is so difficult to pinpoint.  Every man wants to become the master of the clit.  However, conquering that miniscule bulb over a woman’s vagina can be such an impossible task.   

Your penis is very straight forward: you touch it, it gets hard; you touch it more, and you cum.  The reason it is so easy is that everything you need to work with is right in front of you.  That is not so with a woman’s genitalia.  The little bulb you see when you’re looking at it straight on is only a small portion of what makes up the clit.  Most of it is internal, which is why it is so hard to figure out. 

I don’t want to skeeve any guys out here, but the appearance of the clitoris as a whole is quite similar to the penis; it’s just mostly on the inside.  It is reminiscent in shape and function as it has both a shaft and erectile tissue.  What you think of as the clit is actually just the head or glans of the clitoris.  If you look closely at it, the glans does bear resemblance to the head of a man’s penis, only significantly smaller.  Despite its size, the head of the clitoris houses twice as many nerves as does the penis - which is why her orgasms are much, much better than yours. 

When a woman is not stimulated, the clitoris appears internally like a flaccid penis does externally.  Upon arousal, it becomes engorged and erect, actually hardening like a man’s penis.  The head pushes against the clitoral hood, which is homologous to a man’s foreskin.  The head can be incredibly sensitive, and the clitoral hood protects it from irritation.  This is particularly important if a woman is not properly stimulated, as the sebum produced by the body is what protects the clit during intercourse. 

However similar in appearance the clitoris is to the penis, it reacts quite differently to stimulation.  It’s easy to stimulate a penis to ejaculation.  You just need to touch it.  However, the clit is not an on/off switch.  If you attempt to stimulate the clitoris before she is adequately aroused, you’re going to end up irritating her more than arousing her.  In which case, it’s all over for you, pal.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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How Women Masturbate





















by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 

I have some shocking news.  Women like to masturbate.  Of course they do, masturbation is really fun!  They masturbate far more than you give them credit for.  In fact, for a shockingly large amount of women, that is the only way they can achieve orgasm.  While you’re aimlessly poking around down below, she’s thinking, “Whatever, just fake it so he’ll stop.  I can take care of myself later.”  This is not because of your inadequacies as a lover, nor is it unfixable.  It’s simply a lack of understanding how her body works. 

Men and women experience sex in very differently.  For men it’s relatively easy: see woman, want to have sex with woman, hopefully penis will touch woman.  Obviously that is an oversimplification, but, compared to the woman’s experience, that’s all it is.  If you develop a better understanding of how women satisfy themselves, perhaps it would seem less complicated.   

She creates a mood 

In order to achieve orgasm, a woman needs the right atmosphere.  She doesn’t light candles and get out the satin sheets every time she masturbates; she just needs to feel comfortable.  If not, she can’t concentrate on the task at hand, so to speak.  If she is too cold or too exposed or too anything that distracts her pleasure, it’s not going to happen.  That sounds daunting, but finding the right ambient balance isn’t too difficult if her mind is calm.  Plus, extreme horniness will always overtake any environmental distractions. 

She sets a pace 

Regardless of the method, a woman touches herself rhythmically.  Meaning, there is an even flow of strokes and caresses, allowing her to concentrate on the sensations each touch gives.  A choppy technique can be distraction.  Whereas a man responds to physical stimulation alone, a woman puts herself into an almost meditative state.  Otherwise, no amount of touching will induce orgasm.  Again, this sounds quite complicated to men, but a woman does know how to adjust her focus in different situations.  

She has a specific technique 

All women have that one sure-fire orgasm making technique.  This is not to say that a woman has only one way of satisfying herself, but she does have a method that guarantees her orgasm.  I know that you are hoping that I’m about to tell you what it is, but I’m not.  It is as diverse as women themselves.  Some women like direct manual stimulation of the head of the clitoris, but some women are far too sensitive and require indirect stimulation.  There are even women who can get off just by rubbing their inner thighs.  Whatever her technique, find out what it is, and learn to employ it in given situations. 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Foreplay is the Real Play






    
















by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Men tend to approach sex in the wrong way.  They think that the harder they ram, the harder she’ll cum.  Unfortunately for women, this doesn’t work.  Did you know the best way to make a woman cum is to not even get inside her?  That’s right, good old third base is a home run for the ladies.  The vagina has very few nerve endings past the opening, and hitting the g-spot through penetration is more about lucking out than mastering technique. 
The male species often thinks that third base is a means to prepare her for his throbbing member, which is why the women they’re with tend not to respond with the screaming orgasm of which they are capable.  If you reprogram yourself to thinking about digital stimulation as part of “having sex,” then you’ll be able to satisfy her on new levels.  She will certainly thank you for it!  

Before you make the journey into the bush, you have to start elsewhere.  Women don’t have the ability to dive right into sex the way men do.  She needs a bit of a build up.  This starts from the moment you hope to have sex with her later.  Every small touch, glance, and kiss throughout the night draws her closer to you.  It will be very difficult to get her started if you’ve been acting like she’s a stranger for the past several hours.  She doesn’t have to feel completely in love with you, but she does need to feel some sort of connection. 

When you’re finally alone, never underestimate the power of a good make out session.  Don’t try to force it, but if you can start with gentle kisses that escalate into tongue tangling passion, her nether regions will be begging for some attention once you get there. 
In the midst of your good old fashioned make-out, put your hands other places, and I don’t mean breasts alone.  You should stroke her back, her sides, her hair, and her breasts.  Play with her nipples for a while, and then move else where.  Go back, move away, and repeat.  Once you feel her breath quicken and her grip tighten, don’t leave her hanging, get down there and touch away. 

It is best to not go into full on assault mode.  Start by massaging the outer parts of her vulva, and her inner thighs.  If you just graze the clitoris now and again, it will send shock waves through her body.  When it’s time, zero in on the sweet spot, and don’t move until she has had at least one mind-blowing climax.
 
 


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Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Man vs. Vibrator


































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


Q:  Why do women get married?

A:  Because vibrators can’t mow the lawn. 

In very recent human history, discussion of women’s sexuality has become increasingly acceptable, and her gratification is becoming just as important as a man’s.  We are studying the female body more closely, unlocking the secrets to pleasure centers of which we had little previous knowledge.   You can practically get a vibrator on every street corner (it’s true, they sell them at American Apparel).  And vibrators are vastly superior to men at producing orgasms.  Why?  Read on. 

  1. Vibrators are not obsessed with their own penises.  The vibrator’s sole function is to get a woman off.  It is not frantically poking away at her most sensitive bits muttering, “Come one, come one,” under its breath because it wants to get through her stupid orgasm as quickly as possible so it can get onto its own climax.

  2. No vibrator has ever complained about the way she smells.  Just as men are always obsessing about their size, women are worried about their vaginal odor.  The fact that it doesn’t naturally taste like passion fruit doesn’t help the insecurity.  If you’re uncomfortable with cunnilingus, that is fine.  Just don’t make a big deal about how much you hate the taste/smell, or she’ll never be able to get wet with you again.

  3. Vibrators maintain a rhythm.  They don’t gently stroke her for a minute or two, then audibly sigh, and increase speed and pressure for another minute or two, and then again audibly sigh and repeat until her clit feels so attacked it’s running in fear.  Contrary to general male practices, this is not the proper method of stimulation.  The rhythm and pressure need to be consistent.  However fast or hard you do it depends on the woman and the day, but whatever it is, keep it going.  If you get too jerky she’ll be thinking, “What the hell is he doing?” and not, “Oh, this feels so good.”  You want relax her, allow her to appreciate the sensation, and if you’re not creating a soothing rhythm it interrupts her concentration.  However, if she’s screaming, “Faster! Faster!” go ahead and speed up.

  4. Her vibrator does not beg her for sex.  It just shows up and does its job when she needs it.  If she’s had a long day, or she’s in the middle of something, or if she’s just plain tired, her vibrator will not whine or complain or try to guilt her into using it.  Her vibrator patiently waits for her to be ready.  When she is feeling horny, her vibrator has not irritated her to the point of being inutile in relation to her pleasure.  And her vibrator has probably lasted longer than most of her relationships.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Getting Her Off































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


Men are incredibly penis-centric beings.  They love to look at it, touch it, talk about it, and some men even name it!    However, women are not as into your penis as you are.  In fact, they tend to orgasm significantly more often when it’s not your penis doing the job.  The vaginal wall has very little in the way of nerves.  It’s the clitoris, which is on the outside, that makes the O-face happen.  That is, if you treat it right. 

Do not just dive right in.  It will only irritate her.  I know you’re thinking, “But it feels so awesome every single time someone touches my penis, so how can it not be the same for chicks’ clits?”  The clitoris and the penis are extremely similar in shape and function, but there are some differences.  Her pleasure organ is largely internal, and not as weathered as your well-beaten member, so it is quite a bit more sensitive.   

When she is in a neutral state, the head of her clitoris is exposed.  The head is the home to over 8,000 nerve endings, which is why it is so much better than your penis is at having orgasms, but also why your fingers feel like cheese graters on her under-stimulated organ.  However, when the woman is aroused, the erectile tissues fill with blood, and the clitoris becomes erect (sound familiar?).  In its erect state, the head slides under the clitoral hood where it is protected and coated with sebum produced in her body.  Meaning, she gets wet. 

The importance of wetness can never be over stated.  Without it, you shouldn’t even bother to get an erection, because she’s not going to let you touch her with it.  So how can you achieve that desired state?  Well, you could immediately run to your trusty water-based, mango flavored lube, dump it in your hand, smear it all over her vulva, and jam your penis in there, or you could do it the way she likes it.  That means foreplay.  A sweet kisses, nipple biting, and everything in between is what she really needs.  If you can provide her with ample stimulation before you even go near her clitoris, it will significantly cut down on the awkward prodding that takes place when you try to go in cold. 

Women are walking erogenous zones.  They don’t have just the one sex organ that is the epicenter of awesomness.  A woman’s whole body is covered in little spots that get them hot.  Where those exact spots varies from woman to woman, and day to day.  But figuring out where they are is all part of the fun.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Psyche Out




























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  
 
 

Men are quite phalli-centric when it comes to sex.  Meaning, they think that sex revolves completely around their penis.  This is a great detriment to most women’s sex lives.  When you put all the importance in sex on your own organ, it virtually negates the need for your partner.  Yes, it feels so much better to put your penis into a vagina than into your fist, but if that is your only concern you’re not really having sex, you’re just getting off.  Guess what?  She can tell, and the more you make her feel like nothing but a cum dumpster, the more she is going to pull away from you sexually. Translation – if you don’t put any effort into her experience in the sack, she will cease to put out.  

The greatest impediment to a woman’s orgasm is psychological.  She must feel sexy in order to feel sexual.  In today’s age, there is a constant bombardment with images of fantasy – Victoria’s Secret Angels, impossibly perfect and perky heroines in film, the mainstreaming of porn.  The business intention behind this is to create an aspirational image.  Nobody buys into something they already have.  

However, in the past fifty years, our access to media has increased exponentially, and society’s consciousness hasn’t necessarily had time to adjust.  No matter how secure a woman is, or how much she turns you on, those images of rote, male-specific fantasy still lurk in her subconscious.  Women’s magazines are flooded with articles featuring Photoshopped spreads of actresses giving interviews revolving completely around diet and exercise routines.  

Oprah publicly apologized for gaining weight.  No matter how much they fight against it, women are consistently told that there is a single standard for hotness, and none of them fit it.  If you get up in there, pump away until you’re done, and then roll over and start snoring, it looks to her like you merely put it where you were given permission, but you were really thinking about Jessica Alba the whole time.  Seriously, ask any female. 
You are probably now totally afraid of the female brain, and you probably should be.  However, all of those issues can be momentarily erased by overwhelming sexual desire and mind-blowing orgasms.  Touch her, stroke her, really feel everything that makes her unique.  Take the focus off your penis, and put it onto the woman in your bed.  If you start paying attention to her responses, and give her the orgasms she should be having, you’ll see an improvement for both parties.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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