Make Love Like a Teenager































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



You remember your adolescent self, and I’m sure you wouldn’t want to go back to being him for anything.  Walking around with a hard-on twenty four hours a day, surrounded by girls in mini-skirts who won’t even let you touch them under their bras, so you spend most of your time beating off as much as possible without your mom catching on to all the time you spend in the bathroom. 

Fast forward twenty five years.  You have fumbled your way through losing your virginity, making a few mistakes, and getting married.  You now have a beautiful wife that you still find sexy as ever, but between work and family duties, the time you have to spend making mad, passionate love has dwindled.  You want to try something new, but all the stuff you find on the internet requires serious contortions, and you’re not sure your bum knee can take it.

Maybe it’s not something new you need.  Maybe it’s something from before you learned how to unhook a bra without help.  Being a walking hard on was horribly frustrating, but it wasn’t boring.  There are a couple of things you may have forgotten about since girls started letting you put your penis in them. 

The Make-Out Session

I’m sure you remember your first girlfriend.  The two of you used to make out for hours on end – you trying to touch her breast, her slapping your hand away.   The hours and hours of kissing had you in such a frenzy, you didn’t even notice when her dad walked in.   However, ever since you’ve been allowed to have sex with women, this adolescent passion probably hasn’t been equaled.  To add some passion, go back to this old stand by.  Make out, and make out for a really long time.  But how do manage to keep from taking the prize if you’re already allowed?  Trying making it a bet, and make sure the wager is worth it.  For example, whoever touches below the belt first gets to pick TV on Monday.  If you go there first, you’ll be watching Jon & Kate Plus 8 during Monday Night Football.   

Mutual masturbation

I’m sure you cringed at this term when your health teacher presented it as an alternative to sex (unless you were in high school in the last eight years and received abstinence-only education), but the grown up version of this can be fun.  Whether you’re fully clothed on the couch or naked in your bed, mutual masturbation bring some playfulness back into sex.  You can get reacquainted with each other’s genitals – rediscover those spots that really make her lose her mind.  If you cum, you don’t have to have intercourse.  Penetration is not a necessity every time you have sex.  You’re a grown up now, so you can forget all those silly rules you used to make about what defines sex (“It was just a hand job!  We didn’t even do anything!”).  You can go ahead and make your own.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Sensory Sex - Five Reasons to Get it On























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Men are visual creatures, and that is how they express themselves sexually. They like to look at boobs.  They like to watch porn.  However, women are multisensory.  They experience sex with all of their senses.  While a great set of abs does entice her visually, so does the sound of a man’s voice or the warmth of his touch.  When she is attracted to him, his scent is stronger than other men’s scents.  While men may not be inherently moved to incorporate a woman’s fragrance or the cadence of her speech into his sexual nature, it doesn’t mean he can’t consciously make the decision to do so.  Here’s a quick review of the five senses, and how erotic each can be. 

Sight

We’ll start with this one just to get it out of the way.  Men are already experts in getting turned on by what they can see, but you can take it even further.  Really scan your lover’s body with your eyes.  See how her body is different from other women’s.  Maybe she has strong runner’s legs or perfectly olive skin.  You will see her in a new light once you’ve really taken her in. 

Taste

This can be a fun one.  Give each other sensual massages with flavored oils, and then lick it off one another’s bodies.  Blindfold her, and then feed her passion fruits or chocolate mousse.  Buy a variety pack of flavored lip balms, and then guess the flavor every time you kiss her hello.  Whatever it is, have fun with it. 

Smell

Your sense of smell can be heightened during times of extreme arousal.  Fill the room with warm, relaxing scents.  Breathe in the smell of her skin when she’s under you.  Once you know her smell, it will get you going every time you catch a whiff. 

Sound

This one is easy: talk dirty.  Whether you’re telling over the phone what you’re going to do to her when you get home, or whispering sweet nothings in her ear, heighten the anticipation with verbal stimulation.  Also, when you’re pleasuring her or railing her, listen to her moans and hear her reaction.  Then you can be certain you’re doing it right. 

Touch

This is the most sexually satisfying of all the senses.  Run your hands all over each other’s bodies.  Feel the warmth of her skin.  Play a game where you touch her each part of her body from head to toe, but never lose contact.  Then enjoy the intense pleasure when you’ve felt her with all your senses.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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The Vulva Massage




























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Everyone likes a good massage.  It’s relaxing, and it loosens the muscles. However, did you know that there’s a different kind of massage you can use during sex?  It’s the vulva massage.  That’s right, you massage her vulva.  I’m not talking about that “warm apple pie” nonsense that has misled men for years, I’m talking about taking care of her genitals in a way that makes her responsive to your touch. 

Before we continue, let’s do a refresher on what exactly the vulva is.  In it a nutshell, it’s the lady bits.  The major parts of the vulva include the labia majora, the labia menora, the clitoris and clitoral hood, the vagina, and the perineum.  All of these are utilized in a good vulva massage.  They all provides sensations superior to vaginal penetration alone.  Let me repeat this concept for effect: vaginal penetration alone does not get a woman off!  You must learn to utilize all parts of the vulva for optimum satisfaction.  Here are just a few of the many techniques that may be applied. 

1)     “Hello” technique. 
 
This is named aptly for two reasons: it mimics a wave, and it’s an excellent technique to use in your approach.  With her legs spread, face her sitting between her legs or to one side.  Raise your hand as if you’re waving, and cup her entire vulva with it.  Move your palm in slow, gentle circles.  Whether you do so in clockwise or counterclockwise motions is up to you and your partner.  This move gives indirect stimulation to the clitoris, amping up her arousal.

2)     The Labia Glide

This is a two-handed exercise, and can be done with either full palms or just your thumbs.  With one had on each of her labia majora (aka the big lips), you want to glide your palms or thumbs up and down along the labia.  This can then be broken down into two sub-categories:

a)     Move your hands together.  If you stroke up, both hands stroke up.  If you stroke down, both stroke down.  She will feel your hands rubbing along the sides of her clitoris.

b)     Move your hands in opposition.  This provides more indirect stimulation of her clitoris.  The labia will rub against it as they rub against each other, making for some very sweet friction.

3)     The Spread and Squeeze

This technique is to balance the Labia Glide.  Still concentrating on the labia majora, take them in between your thumb and forefinger and pinch them together.  Then use your fingers to spread them apart.  Repeat in a slow, rhythmic motion.  It is best used if you position this technique directly over her clitoris.  If she is super sensitive, this may even make her cum!
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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The Real Secrets of Sexual Mastery































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  




Tricks, without true sexual understanding, are empty, robotic... lifeless. Believe me, if sexual expertise simply requires rote tricks, then I would have simply thrown a bunch of cheap tricks to your face. We would have taken that route and my job would be much easier.

The real secrets of lovemaking are NOT suppressed, subverted, or reserved only for the sexual elite.

The opposite is true ­ they are sinfully plain to eyes and deceptively obvious, that's why very few men (or women for that matter), see them for what they truly are... MAGIC.

Their simplicity is their tragedy. These "secrets" are not hidden nor obscure, they are so
self-evident that nobody really takes the time to notice them. They are easily taken for granted and nobody gives them second pass.

The biggest sex secrets are not moves, tricks or techniques ­ They are specific mindsets, beliefs and mental programming.

1- Visual VS. Multisensory

SIGHT will instantly ignite a man's pants. The sight of a foxy chick can get a man
going... instantly! How about a woman? How can you make her brain think, "Sex...now!"

Well, women are MULTISENSORY.

Through the 5 SENSES, you can talk her brain to lust. By employing smell, taste, touch and sound, you can really get her going. (And that's certainly good news for guys with skinny bodies and ugly faces.)

Because of this sensitivity to various channels of sensual stimulation, Eve gets turned-on by a variety of things... things guys would never understand why.

We agree that curves are sexy -- very visual. But women consider things like (1) the deep voice of a hunchback poet, (2) the sweet smell of mornings, (3) the rich taste of Swiss chocolate, (4) the warm breath fondling her neck ­ as "SEXY".

For guys, these are whacked. "What's with the hunchback and poetry thing?"

Moreover, men assume that women are highly visual like them, and guys still think their looks and external trappings are sufficient sexual come-ons. Starting today, when you think AROUSAL, go MULTISENSORY.

2 ­ Physical vs. Psychological

Every time SEX is on the table, two elements come in focus ­ there's a PHYSICAL and a PSYCHOLOGICAL-EMOTIONAL side.

Physical refers to those luscious lips you long to kiss, that pair of erect nipples on a horny woman's heaving bosom and that firm body you long to be on top of.

Psychological-Emotional can refer to many things. Since sex stands on an interaction and symbolic basis, the issues of self-esteem, self-control, self-concept, self- confidence, dominance and sexual hang-ups come in. Also included are the feelings for the person you're with... or the lack thereof. It's your perception of the relationship, is it a one-night stand or a long-term thing?

Men are naturally dialed to the physical. Huge breasts. Tight ass. And of course - a freak in bed, willing to try every silly trick in the book. Still, it doesn't mean the psychological-emotional issues never come in.

Women dig the Psychological-Emotional, and for many, sex presupposes an emotional connection. Not necessarily the "I'm so gonna marry this guy" feeling, but at least a feeling of closeness and comfort.

3 ­ Process VS. Goal

This is the 3rd crucial difference between men and women. Women ask, "What's with men? They want sex so bad, but when you finally give IT to them, they sure want it over as fast as possible!"

Guys are very goal-oriented. Look at everyday scenes and witness how we contrast with Eve. Take jogging at the park, for example. Observe how men and women go about this ritual and behold their idiosyncrasies.

Can you spot the differences?

Women are able to appreciate the view as they run, taking in the freshness of morning, sparing a second to marvel at flowers along the route. They are also more likely to smile at strangers along the way.

How about the men, how did we do? We were probably counting laps made, whilst cursing how many freakin' more to go, constantly looking over those heart rate gadgets strapped on our wrists. Heck, we would gladly step over flowers just to get from point A to B! Men have a thing for goals. And this predisposition inevitably gets carried over to the
bedroom ­ displayed by an obsessive drive to 3 specific targets:

Goal # 1 = Take her clothes off Goal # 2 = Slide penis in Goal # 3 = Cum

But with Eve... it's not so much the destination; it's really more about the journey ­ WOMEN ARE PROCESS CREATURES. For them, sex is a moment by moment experience. (Hint to would-be great lovers)

With HER, she's thinking, "Ok what's happening, NOW... what's he doing down there, NOW... Ohhhh what he's doing NOW really feels good."

Can you sense the critical difference? They are on different worlds and different time zones! Women are into process, the Present ­ men obsess with goals ­ the Future.

So it's quite difficult for the goal-oriented and process- oriented creatures to be on the same page. Is one more correct than the other? No, but men ought to look into process so they won't miss the pleasures offered by along the way. If you've got eyes solely on the goal, you will miss on the beauty of the journey.

That's not to say that women don't bother if they cum or not, they just know that orgasms aren't everything, and their quality depends so much on going through due process. Sextraordinary is found in the PROCESS.
 


 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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The Single BIGGEST Sex Mistake Men Make




























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  




Lack of foreplay is one of the biggest turn-offs in the world of SEX.

Foreplay is often understood as the set of activities done before actual intercourse. The
typical menu includes kissing, caressing, getting & giving head, touching, groping, hugging, fingering etc. Men feel like dogs if they don't engage in it, and they've heard or read somewhere that plenty of it makes them a great lay ­ so they sign up. Foreplay makes gentlemen out of horny boys.

Doesn't matter if you're a newbie or an expert, foreplay works like a charm ­ definitely gets Eve going.

Why? You wonder why? BECAUSE IT LARGELY EMBODIES WHAT WOMEN, THE XX GENDER, ARE ALL ABOUT.

They want it far, far more than any other part of the program, yes, even penetration. Not because they need extra ticks to heat up, but because it is in foreplay that their physical and emotional needs are met.

She wants to feel needed, wanted and appreciated. Kissing, caressing and gazing into her eyes accomplish exactly that. It makes her gasp, Wow, he thinks more of me than just a vagina on heels!
It's the most personal part of the act, and probably the only time her presence is being fully
recognized. (Because when the pumping begins, men often fly off to their own worlds and forget about their partners.)

But F geniusly bridges the emotional and the physical. To her, it captures the essence of the phrase: Being with a man. And something very interesting happens during foreplay. Eve not only senses the touch, the physical connection, but the emotional underpinnings as well.

For example, when you kiss her, she doesn't just feel the lips touching, she relishes the emotional bond. (This connection is what women fuss about.)

In addition to this, foreplay is especially designed for the senses. The sensual bombardment is so remarkable, and the potential for pleasure so high, that it rivals the ecstasy of an orgasm.

Being multi-sensory, significantly fascinated by process and details, women relish every drop of the stuff going on. The smell of candles, the sound of lip-locks, the caress of your fingers, the slow and steady build-up of sexual heat ­ women are sucker for these.

Not that sensual bliss is solely found in foreplay, but tastefully done, Foreplay can be like one long orgasm.

Really! One... long... lasting. . .climax! The Grossly Underplayed Card

In a committed relationship, there are certain physical accesses and privileges that only YOU, her partner, can avail of.

Foreplay is one.

No one else is licensed to connect with her in the manner that you are encouraged to. Not even her long time girlfriend can do that to her body, as society limits them to hugs & kisses. Only you are tolerated to caress her breasts, lick her body or slip your fingers...without a lawsuit. Nobody else has that PRIVILEGE of ravishing and indulging her.

Only you. Hands, tongue, any part of you, can mesh with hers... without apologies... without
restraint.

Unfortunately, this is an underused card. Men take foreplay for granted, not understanding their total franchise of her body, mistaking kisses and caresses as means to an end.

The irony, is that out of the many uncontrollable emotional forces operating inside your woman's body, one of the most potent is the yearning to be kissed & touched. She's dying to be kissed and craving to be touched. She wants the warmth of another person. In a committed relationship, the source of all that (and more), is YOU. The only one who can fill such an unimaginable need.

Think about that for a moment.

Why Is It Easier To Suck At Foreplay?

As I've said, foreplay works, it doesn't matter whether you're a newbie or expert, you can get a woman going. But when a well-intentioned guy fumbles, it's not necessarily because he's a jerk or that he fundamentally sucks. He's probably still getting the hang of it.

Guys don't have socially acceptable avenues to practice foreplay... except in the act itself. Both practice and the real thing happen at the same time and I if you don't make-out or get laid, you don't get practice.

Compare that to Eve's world where they've been hugging and kissing since they were kids, where touching marks the affairs of women.

Moreover, foreplay involves a lot of being in the moment. Which, again, the goal-oriented fellows don't do. We don't ruminate, we're always on the move, always making things happen, changing the world. The slow and steady build up that women like goes against every force of habit. We don't even know what the heck being in the moment really means.

When guys operate as if sex involves paper work or deadlines, they may do their darn best, but they will still suck if they don't stop acting as if they're at the office.

So there you have it. A in-depth look at one of the biggest mistakes men make when making love with women.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Building The Big " O "























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 



For women, achieving orgasm is a process, and a fun one at that.  All of the kissing, touching, licking, and caressing are vital parts of sex for the fairer sex, not just stuff you do until you cum.  She feels intense delight at the touch of your lips and the stroke of your finger tips.  In fact, there are instances where a woman enjoys the sexual experience, even if she hasn’t climaxed.  Those instances are few and far between, so it’s best if you know how to make it happen.   

There is not a single technique that will guarantee your woman’s satisfaction, but rather a building of mood and touch that eventually send her over the edge.  It’s a bit difficult for men to grasp, since a warm vagina, or even a fist full of hand lotion, is all it really takes to get where you need to be.  Perhaps a better understanding of the phases a woman goes through to reach orgasm is in order. 

Phase I: The Beginning

This is the part when she just decided she wants to have sex.  Her breathing is slightly heavier than normal, and her pulse has quickened.  Some serious making out just may be in order at this point.  Let your hands wander all over her body.  Run your fingers through her hair, stroke her back, and even get in a bit of nipple play.  If your hands head south of the border, avoid direct contact with her clit.  Use slow, gentle strokes.  Rubbing your palm slowly and deeply over her vaginal lips is a great way to give her a hint of what’s to come without irritating her lady bits. 

Phase II:  The Build-Up

 Now things are really getting heated up.  Her breathing has turned into almost a pant, and she’s probably let out some audible moans.  In this phase, you can make more direct contact with the clitoris, but don’t just hang out there.  Keep that indirect contact going, but brush the head of the clit every once in a while.  Rub the sides along the shaft, and then pinch the head.  You can also vary strokes and speeds at this point.  You may want to rub the head of the clit in a circular motion at a high frequency, and then slowly rub the shaft up and down.  However you want to do it, just play! 

Phase III: The Big Finish

Phase III is typically signaled by her screaming, “Faster! Faster!”  Now is not the time to mess around.  Get in there, and get the job done!  Zero in on that one spot, and rub it like you mean it!  Use quick, circular motions right on the head of the clitoris until you hear her scream in ecstasy.



About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Her Orgasm





























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



A man has two additional phases to his orgasm that women do not: the Point of No Return (PNR) and the Refractory Period.  The PNR, as you can guess, is when you have reached the point where you don’t even need to be touched in order to ejaculate.  Your body goes into the Refractory Period after you have climaxed, and you’re “coming down,” in a sense.  You feel calm, warm, and tired.  There will be absolutely no service in that area until your penis has had a rest.  Let’s explore these phases more closely, and see how they make your sex different from hers.  

The PNR is both a blessing and a curse.  It happens when the semen has entered the shaft, and there is no stopping the load from blowing.  Your grandmother could walk into the room, and you’d still be able to cum.  Women do not experience this.  Her body will not continue to through the orgasm unless stimulated.  The minute you stop touching her, she will stop cumming.  She could be in the middle of a body searing orgasm, and if you pull away, that will be the end of it.  Some men think this is a cute way to tease their woman, but some men are total idiots.  If she is screaming, “I’m cumming!  I’m cumming!” then you had better continue to do exactly what you are doing until she’s done, or she just might not let you have a second chance.

She may not be able to get through a climax with no stimulation, but her orgasms tend to be quite a bit more intense than yours.  Typically, you bust out that squishy “O” Face for about two seconds, and then it’s nap time.  Her orgasms can last exponentially longer than that given the proper stimulation.  You will hear her scream, see her body writhe, and she will be in a totally different world.  Guess what, she can do it again.    

The best part about sex for a woman is she doesn’t have the Refractory Period.  When she climaxes, her body doesn’t go into hibernation mode the way yours does.  Therefore, if you quit on her after just one sweet burst, you’re not living up to your full potential as a lover.  Now don’t just get her off and then mindlessly keep rubbing the same spot hoping it’ll happen again.  Pull back a bit.  If you wait a minute, and then go back to touching her, she’ll cum again.  Plus, each proceeding orgasm tends to build in intensity.  If you get her to the point where she’s going, “Stop, I can’t cum anymore, it’s too intense, “ she may just fall in love with you.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





Click the Banner below to visit the " Love Doctor " website and view this and many more products to help you improve your Lovelife and Relationships, the site is packed with lots of books on all aspects of Lovemaking and Relationships !




Is She Bored with Sex
























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



As you have probably noticed, making a woman cum is not as easy as they make it look on TV.  The one spot that you’re sure will lead to climax is the size of an eraser, and it won’t get all worked up over just anything.  You’re a man.  You’re used to the penis which works like a rifle: load it, point it, shoot it.  A woman’s trigger is far more difficult than that.  You have to find it, but you’ll never find it if you don’t prepare her first.  Once you do find it, it’s inexplicably moving all over the place on you, and you get frustrated because all the blood you need to make your brain function correctly has rushed into your penis.  How on earth are you supposed to please a woman if you can’t even figure out her body? 

There is one technique that will help you through this: don’t give up!  I’m not saying that every single time you must work until you make her cum.  That can be irritating.  However, if the both of you are consistently giving up on her orgasm, it’s red alert time, pal.  The more she doesn’t cum, the more the idea of having sex with you becomes a chore.  She understands that sex is an important part of a relationship’s function, so she will do it even if she doesn’t get much out of it.  Additionally, if she’s having sex with little pleasure, you may feel closer to her, but she will be frustrated with you.  Perhaps the stereotype of the harpy wife isn’t so much to do with the fact that women are lunatics as it is that men grow lazy in the bedroom over time?  How nice are you when you haven’t gotten off in months?  

Think about it this way: you know that working out is vital to your health.  However, when you are out of shape, it’s all you can do to make yourself get to the gym.  When you’re strong and fit, you like to work those muscles out, and you look forward to physical activity.  It’s the same with sex.  If a woman’s clitoris is not getting a consistent work out, there is not much incentive to have sex.  When she’s coming on a regular basis, then her clit can’t wait to be touched!  If you give her the proper stimulation, she may actually be begging you for sex every once in a while!
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





Click the Banner below to visit the " Love Doctor " website and view this and many more products to help you improve your Lovelife and Relationships, the site is packed with lots of books on all aspects of Lovemaking and Relationships !




It's All in the Kiss


























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Women put a lot of stock into a kiss.  The way you kiss her can make or break her feelings for you.  An unsure attraction can be solidified with a passionate lip lock, or a woman can lose all attraction for you if the kiss is lame.  Here are some tips to help ensure a good reaction. 

Set the mood.

The necessity for mood setting varies with circumstance.  If you’ve been together for a long time, and you’re just sneaking a peck in the kitchen, you certainly don’t need to go to romantic lengths before you go in.  However, if it’s a first kiss, or a kiss that you’re hoping with lead to more physical activity, you need some lead in.  It doesn’t have to involve scented candles and Barry White, but you also don’t want to catch her off guard.  It can be as simple as looking into her eyes.  Also, make some sort of preliminary physical contact – lightly stroke her cheek or push the hair out of her face.  Whatever it is, make it a loving gesture.  Avoid touching any of her private areas before she’s comfortable. 

Relax…

Nothing kills the mood like a stiff lipped kiss.  It causes the kiss to feel awkward, interrupting the feeling of intimacy you’ve set.  If the kiss feels awkward, then you feel awkward to her.  Awkward equals insecure.  You will be hard pressed to find a woman who wants a man who is so uncomfortable with himself he can’t even enjoy a kiss.  You must relax!  Take all worries about your worthiness out of your head.  She wouldn’t be allowing your lips on hers if she thought you were some schlep, so don’t convince her otherwise.  
…but not too much.

Limp lips lack strength, and you don’t want to look weak.  I know, I know, where’s the fine line?  A good indication is the drool.  There should be enough tension to keep the spit in your mouth.  She should not be drowning in your saliva!  If you keep your eyes closed and allow yourself to experience the kiss, you should be able to gage the tension. 

Check your tongue.

The number one way to look like an amateur is to lead with the tongue.  She wants to kiss you, not taste your dinner.  It’s also too overtly sexual.  When you’re getting hot and heavy, you can certainly enjoy some tonsil hockey, but immediate tongue action will make her feel objectified.  Not that you have to keep it completely recoiled, a few quick licks of her parted lips will give her a thrill. 

Put your boner away.

Putting your lips on a woman that you find sexually attractive gets you hot.  You’re a man; it’s not difficult to get you aroused.  However, if you start grabbing boobs and rubbing a hard penis on her leg, you’ll be going home with your right hand tonight.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Manscaping - It's Not Just for Pretty Boys





























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Body hair is a sensitive topic among men -it’s sort of like cellulite is for women – but the fact of the matter is, no matter how much your wife claims to love your back hair, she would like it better if it wasn’t there.  Yes, body hair shows you’re a man, but if when you two get done having sex, and she has almost as much of your body hair stuck on her, as you have on your body, it’s time to consider some manscaping.  I’m not suggesting you wax yourself to the brink of looking like a bad impression of a David Beckham Armani Underwear ad, I’m just suggesting a little basic grooming. 

The first step seems quite obvious, but it bears repeating – wash yourself.  I know you’ve seen a bunch of movies about horny teenage boys where they say that women love a man’s sweat.  Well, they don’t mean dry sweat.  If you sweat at all during the day, you must wash, as bacteria and body odor stick to dry sweat.  That smell does not please women.  You can even take it a step further.  Look at her products.  I’m sure she has some kind of body scrub.  If you exfoliate, which means rub the grainy stuff all over your body, two to three times a week, it will get rid of the top layer of dead skin and even make course body hair a bit finer.  That means dude grime won’t build up on your skin as quickly, and you will be softer to the touch.  I know you think it sounds a little gay, but if your skin is soft, she will want to rub all over you. 

Now to deal with the excessive body hair.  Men seem to be unable to notice when the nose hair sticks out below their nostrils, or fuzz grows out of their ears.  In which case, just to be safe, put yourself on a regimen of running nose hair cutters through those areas once a week.   That way you can be certain you don’t see hair because it’s not there. 
Onto your pubic area.  You should follow the military rule of keeping it high and tight.  If you have a big, thick bush filled with sweat and dead skin cells that should have been exfoliated, it is not going to make her want to put her face down there.  Again, you don’t have to shave it bald, just give it a courtesy trim now and then. 

There you have it, you don’t need any fancy procedures -although the cost of laser hair removal does become more affordable every day – you just need to practice some basic hygiene.  It’s just plain respectful to your woman, and you will be rewarded with more sex.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Sometimes She's Just Not That Into You





























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



When women just aren’t in the mood to have sex, men sometimes take it too personally.  Unless she says to you, “I don’t want to have sex because I think you are a big, fat, noncontributing waste of my lifetime,” then go ahead and assume it’s because of you.  Outside of that, find out what it is that’s keeping her from wanting to get intimate.  For the most part, men are willing to have sex no matter how busy or over-worked they are.  In fact, men consider it to be a great stress reliever.  Women, however, cannot focus on the desire to have sex if their minds are being weighed down with the stresses of the day.  If you nuzzle up to her and stick your hand up her shirt, and she swats it away, don’t immediately react defensively.  Throwing a hissy fit because your girl won’t have sex with you never got anyone laid. 

A little bit of respect goes a long way.  If she is standoffish, find out what’s on her mind.  It’s good to open the door, as allowing her to vent the frustrations of the day to you allows her to relax and let it go.  Plus, you may find out that she is actually upset with you, and going into that conversation calm and collected will warrant a much more favorable response from her. 

Think of what you can do for her, rather than reacting to what she’s not doing for you.  As stated before, simply being a shoulder to cry on is enough.  Plus then you get that whole knight-in-shining-armor thing going on.  You could also offer to get her a bottle of her favorite wine so she can unwind with dinner (getting a chick tipsy always makes her want to have sex more, you know).  After dinner, rub her feet or her back.  When she’s physically and mentally relaxed, then you can start working your caresses up her leg or down her shirt.  It shows her you’re more concerned about including her in the sex, rather than using her to get yours. 

The best thing you can do in the face of rejection is to check your ego.  No issue was ever seen through with defensiveness.  If you badger her into sex, it won’t be satisfying for either of you, and you’ll face greater rejection later.  These sorts of bedroom issues can lead to larger problems.  It’s best to address them early.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Sensual Massage: Your Guide to the Basics





























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  


It’s no big secret that women like to be touched.  They love the feeling of comfort it provides.  Which is why, if you want to please a woman, you should never underestimate the power of the sensual massage.  The strokes of your hand will both relax and entice her.  By the end, she will have a clear mind and be focused completely on you – as long as you create an inviting ambiance.  This is a step-by-step guide to help you understand the basics of sensual massage. 


  1. Set the mood.  If it is too cold or too bright, it will not be soothing to her.  Dim the lights or light scented candles.  For an extra soothing sensation, put on some soft music.  I personally recommend some Al Green, but definitely choose music she likes.  If you’re not sure, nature sounds or ambient noise CDs are a good alternative.  Make sure it’s nice and warm in the room, or she won’t want to get naked!


  2. Lube up.  Not in the way you’re thinking.  Apply a creamy lotion or oil to your palms before you start rubbing her down.  It will allow your hands to glide across her skin more smoothly.  Get something special that you only use for this purpose, and get it in a yummy flavor so you can lick it off of her later.  The aroma of it will tingle her senses, heightening her experience as well.


  3. Master your strokes.  Don’t press too hard, you are her sexual partner, not her athletic trainer.  You don’t need to beat out tight spots or loosen up joints; you want to relax the poor girl.  Slow and steady strokes are key.  Avoid loosing physical contact during the massage.  It agitates the senses, which is counter productive to what you’re trying to accomplish.


  4. Don’t play favorites.  If you rub down one arm, you must rub down the other.  Giving all of your attention to one part of the body makes her feel unbalanced and uneasy.  Additionally, don’t do her right side and then her left.  If you massage her right arm, do her left arm before moving on to her right leg and then her left.  This applies not only to sensual massage, but to any intimate situation.  If you suck on her left nipple, make sure you give attention to her right one.  Conversely, if you spend time on her lower half, make sure you kiss her on her upper half to help balance it out.


 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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