Make Love Like An Elite - It's Not about Technique































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



The ’84 Dolphins were an historic team for any sport.  This was large in part due to Dan Marino’s outstanding season at quarterback.  He passed for a record-setting 5,084 yards and a record-setting 48 touchdowns, and was only sacked 14 times during the regular season.  He had an uncanny ability to read a play and a laser for an arm.  Combining this with the synchronicity he had with wide receivers Mark Clayton and Mike “Super” Duper, it’s no wonder they stand out as one of the greatest teams in sports history.   Hours upon hours of training and drill running read to this team’s precision offense.  However, this is not the way one should approach sex. 

Concentrating too hard on technique can actually inhibit pleasure during sex.  No matter how much practicing you’ve done, no two women ever react to touch the same way, and even the same woman could have different responses on different occasions.  Mastering specific maneuvers is a practice in futility.   You’re not trying to win the Super Bowl here; you’re trying to please your woman. 

Over-thinking your technique is counter productive to the affect a woman is seeking during sex, which is a shared connection.  I’m not talking soul mate stuff.  Even if it’s a one night stand, sex will not be as satisfying to a woman if the man is not engaged in the act.  If you’re concentrating too hard on which maneuver comes next for optimum satisfaction – touch her breast, then kiss her lips, then gently place your hand between her legs – then you are not using the best tool you have, which is you. 

A woman experiences sex differently than a man.  All a man really needs in order to achieve climax is stimulation of the penis.  If his penis enters a vagina, he has achieved sex.  Women, however, have sex with all their senses.  The smell of your hair and the warmth of your skin are all integral to her pleasure.  She is experiencing you with her lips, her hands, and, yes, her genitals.  If your brain is absent, you are not responding to her desire to touch you, and she will inevitably feel the distance.  However, if you take a cue from her and start putting your mind back into the game, you will improve the pleasure levels for both of you. 

Next time you are in bed with a woman, stop worry about every minutia.  Instead, focus on the person lying with you.  Catering to her responses will yield a vastly superior reaction than cold, practiced moves.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Down Boy - How Your Penis is Ruining Your Sex Life



































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Gentlemen, I have some sad but true news for you that may be hard to hear:  women are just not as enamored with your penis as you are.  So if you want to be with someone who just looooves wieners, be gay.  If that doesn’t sound like an appealing option for you, then learn to tame your manhood.  I know, when you’re in arousing situations, it’s screaming in your ear to get it some attention, but if you don’t allow good sense to overrule, you may end up turning her off.  Let me give you a few scenarios where you should tune out Mr. Happy.

Scene I:  She wraps her arms around your neck, giving you a long, sensuous kiss.

What your penis tells you:  Grab boobies!  Grab booty!  Get your hands on whatever you can!

What you should do:  Return the kiss.  Appreciate what you can get out of that act alone – feel the warmth of her lips and the taste of her breath.  Keep your hands occupied by stroking her back or hair.  This may encourage her arousal.  If it doesn’t, try giving her lips a little lick.  Never should you resort to mauling to express your attraction.  It feels disrespectful to her, and her defenses immediately go up.

Scene II:  You’re on the couch watching a movie, and you start making out.

What your penis tells you:  Put her hand down your pants!  Push her face into your lap!

What you should do:  If you’re making out for a bit, this time when it’s okay to head for second base.  Just don’t grab!  Ease your way up there.  The nipples tend to be quite sensitive, so if you’re gentle with them it can be a great source of arousal for her.  Then maybe you can pause the movie and politely suggest retiring to the bedroom for a bit.

Scene III:  The clothes are off, and sex is definitely going to happen.

What your penis tells you:  Stick it in!  Stick it in!  Stick it in NOW!

What you should do:  Take deep breaths.  Concentrating on your breath will help occupy your mind, and the steady oxygen to your brain will have a calming effect.  Once you’ve cleared the testosterone cloud, you can really enjoy the sexual experience.  Inhale her scent, and feel her skin.  Become cognizant of the woman with you.  It will only increase the pleasure of the experience.  In the end, your penis will thank you.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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The Sensual Man, You don’t have to be a Spanish dance instructor





























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



I once knew a salsa instructor in Spain who was scrawny with a jacked up grill, but women flocked to him.  It wasn’t just the swivel hips.  They stood around him, giggling to each other about how he was just so sensual.  That is because he really paid attention to them.  He noted a nice perfume and complimented new haircuts.  When he spoke to a woman, he looked her in the eye, and he listened to what she said.  He appreciated every detail that made a woman pleasing, and she appreciated him back. 

You don’t have to be a Spanish dance instructor to make women melt, although it helps.  Just take some cues from the guy.  Before you can be a sensual lover, you have to be a sensual person, and that’s achieved in paying attention to the details.  Stop and smell the roses, if you will. 

Let’s say you are going to have a private dinner prepared for you by world-renowned chef Mario Batali.  As you’re being served course after course of some of the finest cuisine in the world, are you going to just shovel it into your mouth in order to fill your stomach?  Or are you going to savor each bite, taking in the artistry of the flavors?  Option one may make you full, but you have not enjoyed the meal to its full potential. 

This is all too often how men approach life, which is why they approach sex in the same manner.  They know that getting off is nice, so that becomes the goal of the act.  Much in the same way wolfing down Batali’s meal won’t allow you to appreciate the complex flavors, madly pumping your way through sex doesn’t allow you the full experience.  

The easiest way to correct this behavior is to slooooow doooown.  This doesn’t mean that you should continue the same humping method, just slower.  It means, slow everything down.  Close your eyes, and take a deep breath through your nose.  Notice what you smell.  Maybe it’s nothing, or maybe something is cooking in the background, and you can pick out the faint smell of garlic.  Now do this with your partner.  Close your eyes – cutting off one sense heightens the other.  Breathe her scent in.  Note what you smell, and how it is unique to her.  Run your finger tips along her skin.  Feel how soft it is in comparison to yours.  Now look her over.  Really look her over.  See how her body is different from any other woman’s body.  Maybe she has a scar on her knee that you never noticed before.  Using all your senses helps you to really appreciate your partner.  The more you appreciate her, the more you can please her, and the better the sex is for both parties.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Get Fit to Do It - Dying on the job is Not good





























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



I’m sure the idea of going out mid-coitus sounds like a great way to die– most men think so.  However, having a massive coronary atop some poor woman because your bloated carcass can’t handle the activity is not such a good way to be remembered. 

It’s no big secret that obesity is an issue.  Practically every media source you pick up addresses the issue, and weight-loss is a multi-billion dollar industry.  However, we aren’t as inundated with information about how fitness affects us sexually – positive or negative.  
Sex is a labor intensive activity.   Your heart rate and breathing increase rapidly and dramatically.  Muscles clench and remain tense over a period of time.  Your core body temperature rises significantly even if it’s not a marathon session.  Eating right and getting enough exercise will help you maintain during sex.  It also helps you to relieve stress and stimulate the production of endorphins – the feel-good hormone in your brain – which increases your sex drive and can potentially make your orgasms stronger.  You don’t have to be a super athlete by any means, but basic physical health will improve your sexual functioning. 

As you may guess, unhealthy people suffer negative consequences in their sex lives.  If you can’t walk up a flight of stairs without running out of breath, how are you going to be able to handle the physical strains put on the body by sexual activity?  And breathlessness could be the least of your worries.  Hyper tension and high blood pressure, symptoms associated with obesity, can affect libido, or worse, hamper erectile functions.  Plus, with tons of extra body mass, you have less ability to perform moves that require some agility.

Maintaining a healthy weight isn’t so much about not being a fat bastard as it is keeping yourself alive for the sake of your loved one.  If you’re a married, middle-aged father with high blood pressure and Type II diabetes, your health does not only affect you.  The shortness of breath and fatigue are your crosses to bear.  The constant worry about if/when you will have that fatal heart attack, which cancer you may develop, and the agony of losing a loved one too soon, are the burdens your poor health choices put on your family members.  Your wife could begin to resent the pain you’re willing to put her through so you can eat fried food, and resentment is no aphrodisiac.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Dapper or Desperate? It's NOT all about the show guys





























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



The Fine Line Between the Finer Things and Trying Too Hard 

Here’s the scene:  You’re in a bar.  A girl walks in looking like she just stepped off the pages of Playboy and into your watering hole – killer body, blond hair, and super sexy.  However, as the night progresses, you watch her get drunker by the moment, throwing herself at every male that passes by.  You’re thinking, “You’re so hot!  Why do you have to ruin it by trying so hard?”  Well, I hate to break it to you, buddy, but this is what you look like when you’re trying to get your Don Juan on. 

Women can spot a bull-shit artist from a mile away.  What you consider “game” renders eye rolls from the fairer sex.  Look around at your friends that do best with the ladies.  What’s their secret?  It’s no game at all.  Women respond best to men who seem to have a genuine interest in who they are.  Fine wines and a dozen roses are a wonderful thought, but mean nothing if you make it all about the show.  Simply trying to impress her is not the goal.  Treat her like she impresses you

Over doing it with a woman is a sign of insecurity, and insecurity is not a turn-on.  How many jokes have you heard about men with fancy cars over-compensating for other areas?  It’s not about what stuff you can put in front of her.  It’s about the connection you make with a woman.  You could be sitting in a dirty coffee shop in Harlem, but if you two are making a connection in an intellectual-emotional way, you will dazzle her more than if you were dropping $500 a plate at Nobu.  Showering her with luxuries with no substance behind it comes across as desperate. 

This translates to the bedroom.  I know you want to blow her mind, especially the first time, but you don’t have to do so every time…especially the first time.  Much how you don’t immediately know how she likes her coffee or what her favorite childhood toy was, knowing where all her hot spots are requires some getting to know each other.  Going into the first time with guns a-blazin’ is about as suave as asking her “what’s your sign?”   
Just the same as on a date, the time in the bedroom should being about experiencing each other.  Instead of twisting her into a pretzel and busting out every sex toy known to man, start simply.  Feel her skin, and kiss her lips.  All the tricks can come once you know each other.  
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Cunnilingus: The Pro vs. The Joe



























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Cunnilingus – it can be a daunting task for an amateur.  So how can you go from being Average Joe to an oral Pro?  Learn what separates the two. 

What Joe does:   First, Joe makes a bee line for the clit.  He either just learned what it is and can’t wait to try it out, or he is trying to get her going as fast as he can so he can get up in there.  It may get her off, but there’s no real wow factor. 

However, Joe takes some risks if he tries to impress.  He has heard that teasing a woman makes her cum harder, but that’s as well versed as he is in the female orgasm.  Level 2 Joe makes the worst mistake a man can make – he quits right as she is on the brink of getting off.  This does not make her cum harder; this makes her stop cumming all together.  It takes a lot of work for a woman to reach orgasm, so if you send her back to Go without letting her collect the proverbial $200, it’s doghouse-city for you, buddy. 

What the Pro does:  The Pro takes his time, making it about the sensual experience in its entirety, not just the cunnilingus.  He spends time with her breasts, licking and sucking her nipples.  Women have varying degrees of sensitivity in their nipples.  Some have next to none, while others have reported orgasms simply through breast feeding.  For the most part, stimulation of the nipples is like a direct line to the clitoris.   

Next the Pro will move to the belly, kissing around her navel.  He moves to the inner thighs, brushing his lips across the highly sensitive skin.  If the nipples were properly stimulated before, the breath near that area, or the accidental brush with his nose, can get her almost overwhelmingly hot before his tongue even grazes the clit. 

The Pro not only knows where the clit is located, but he knows how to work it.  It is important to move the vaginal lips aside in order to properly access the clit.  The clitoris is oblong and smooth, and it looks like it sort of opens up into the vulva.  The part where it opens up is the money spot.  More specifically, the upper left-hand part of this money spot is the jackpot spot.  There is a highly concentrated grouping of nerve endings that, when properly stimulated will send her to la-la land in under two minutes. 

The most important thing the Pro knows is when to tease and when to please.  He knows his partner well enough to know at which point he needs to stop beating around the bush, so to speak, and just finish her off.  Until you master this – and it varies with each woman, so it requires getting to know her specifically – don’t stray from the clit once you’re there.  Otherwise, you better hope she’s not wearing stilettos when she kicks you in the kidney.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Vulva? It's the whole package guys !





































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



An unfortunate amount of men are grossly uninformed about the vulva.  Everyone knows about the vagina – that’s where the penis goes.  When I say the word “clitoris,” there are some of you high five-ing each other going, “Hell, yeah, I know about the clit!”  However, upon hearing “vulva,” most are either scratching their heads or answering something like, “It’s, you know, down there.”  Well, it’s your lucky day.  I’m going to explain what it is, and what exactly is “down there.”   
The first thing that may surprise you is that the vulva is not a thing.  It’s all the things.  Contained in the vulva are the mons veneris, labia majora, the urethra, the clitoris, the vaginal opening, and the perineum.  There are some other things in there, but for our purposes we’ll focus on just these. 

1.      Mons Veneris

The Mons Veneris is more commonly referred to as the Mound of Venus – the fatty tissue over the pubic bone.  It is most easily distinguished by the fact that it is where the bush is.  Or, if she is waxed, where the bush would be.

2.      Labia Majora

Labia majora literally means “big lips.” I hope you are able to imagine where I’m going with this.  They are the two folds that protect all the good stuff underneath.  There is usually hair growing on them.  However, again, in this day and age do not be shocked if that area is bare.  Plus, it’s easier to see if labia majora are turning red.  If they are, it means she’s turned on.

3.      The Urethra

The little hole where the pee comes out.  Don’t put your penis in there.

4.      The Clitoris

If you do not know about the clitoris, you are in trouble, pal.  This is the one and only place you can stimulate that will virtually guarantee an orgasm.  It is covered with a thing called the “clitoral hood,” because it’s a hood…over the clitoris.  Right up under there is the epicenter of nerve endings.  If you can get your tongue, finger, or head of your penis on that spot, you have struck gold. Your woman will thank you dearly.

5.      Vaginal Opening

Otherwise known to you as “Jackpot!”  It is located below the urethra, and this is the place you can put your penis.

6.      Perinium

The Perinium is a little known area of nerve endings.  It is located between the vagina and the anus.  You call yours a chode.  If you lick that spot lightly, she’ll get a pleasant shock.

 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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The Eye of the Beholder






























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  




When you were a kid, your parents and grandparents probably told you to “look people in the eye” when you talked to them.  Looking elsewhere when speaking to someone made you look disinterested or weak.  In most Asian cultures, it is considered rude to stare into someone’s eyes, as direct eye contact is too familiar.  Despite different cultural reactions, the gaze bears significant weight in human relations.  It certainly speaks volumes about you as a lover. 

The way you touch and kiss her only communicates so much.  When you look into someone’s eyes, it opens up your true thoughts.  When your wife or girlfriend gets all gussied up, she can see the “wowza” look you give her.  When you’ve made her cry, she can tell how sorry you are.  When you are getting dizzy with lust, it certainly reads all over your face.  She loves to see what you genuinely feel. 

This access to your inner workings is the exact reason why men avoid eye contact in intimate situations.  Men are socialized to be strong.  In situations where they feel strong –for example, in business – eye contact is not frightening.  However, in instances where emotion is being discussed, a man is not as comfortable opening himself up.  The world has taught you that emotions are a woman thing, and women things are weak.  I hate to tell you this, but on varying levels, you’ve probably bought into it.  Therefore, it’s easier to look down or away in intimate situations, but that is an act of defense, not one of openness.   

Studies have shown that couples who share long gazes tend to be closer.  Staring into one another’s eyes builds intimacy.  It’s why Eastern cultures consider it rude when it’s between strangers – one does not build that kind of intimacy outside of close relationships – and why Western culture see it as a sign of weakness to avoid it – the I’m-not-scared-of-you thing.  However you view it, you expose yourself through your eyes.  You make yourself vulnerable.  Making yourself vulnerable to your partner shows that you’re willing to open yourself up to her. 

Keeping your eyes locked on your significant other makes her feel valued.  I’m not talking about staring at her chest; I’m talking about looking at her.  Look at her like everything else around you has disappeared.  Look at her while you stroke her back or play with her hair.  It shows that you see her as a person, not just a place to put your penis.





 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Taking Turns During Sex






























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 



When you’re in a good relationship, there are so many things you can do together.  You always have someone to go to the movies with, someone to cook with, and best of all, someone to have sex with!  However, here’s the part where it’s best not to worry about togetherness, and start taking turns.  Read on for two instances where it’s best to get in line. 

Orgasms

People seem to think that climaxing at the same time is an easily attainable goal.  Well, it’s not.  The likelihood of having simultaneous orgasms is quite slim - the reason being that men and women climax in quite different ways. 
For men, friction on the penis is what causes the pleasure build, and finally, the orgasm.  It’s not as cut and dry for women – let’s hope it’s not dry at all for women.  The pleasure building central for women is in the clitoris, and not easily stimulated through penetration alone.  In fact, the vast majority of women do not climax during intercourse.  They require more direct contact with the clitoris.  I know you probably think that your awesome penis will tickle that g-spot, but for the women who even know where theirs is, it’s even harder to stimulate than the clit. 

Oral

Have you ever tried 69?  I’m sure it seemed like a good idea at the time, but how long before one of you gave up and let the other do their thing?  Well, for some reason every adolescent boy gets it into his head that 69 is totally awesome.  Even when they’ve done it and given up, they still think they’ll like it next time.  Well, get it out of your head.  69 is not awesome.  It’s confusing.  It is far too difficult to concentrate on pleasuring her when your cock is her mouth. 

You can approach oral in two ways: 1) you first, or 2) her first.  Understand that you first may not be as common, but it can be a way to break up the monotony.  If she gives you a blow job to the point of climax, you will be relaxed enough to really concentrate on her.  You’re more apt to spend the time it takes to perform mind blowing cunnilingus.  After one, this is the time to check out the G-spot digitally.  When she is in a heightened state of arousal, it will be swollen and easier to locate.  Plus, all the time you spend down there will give you time to reload.  Your second shot will take infinitely longer, making you feel like the big stud.



About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





Click the Banner below to visit the " Love Doctor " website and view this and many more products to help you improve your Lovelife and Relationships, the site is packed with lots of books on all aspects of Lovemaking and Relationships !




The Art of the Kiss





























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Nothing can make or break you as a lover like kissing.  It is the first real intimate contact you have with your partner, and the way you kiss can alter her feelings for you completely.  If you’re too aggressive, too sloppy, or just too much, you could end up killing whatever attraction she had for you to begin with.  However, kiss her just right, and she will be putty in your hands.  What makes a kiss spectacular really depends on the couple, but here are some do’s and don’ts that are pretty universal. 

Don’t fall victim to sewer mouth.  You could have lips as luscious as Brad Pitt, but bad breath will ruin the moment.  Cigarette smokers especially have to watch the halitosis. 

Do take care of your teeth.  Brush, floss, and rinse with mouth wash daily.  Popping a breath mint right before making out helps, but it won’t get rid of festering gunk already up in there.  Nobody wants to make out with a guy who has teeth like a meth addict. 

Don’t jam your tongue down her throat.  It is the most common kissing error made by men.  Once things get heated up, the feel of your tongue will set her ablaze!  Ramming your tongue into her mouth before her lips are even parted will bring everything to a screeching halt.  What, are you fifteen? 

Do tease her with the tip of your tongue.  Once you’ve been kissing for a bit, fee lfree add a little tongue, but think of it more as a lick than a jab.  Keep your tongue soft for maximum pleasure. 

Don’t assume a kiss means you’re getting some booty.  For a woman, kissing can just be kissing.  Physical contact with you helps to build her feelings of intimacy toward you.  If every kiss leads to your putting your hands down her pants, she will begin to feel objectified, and a rift will form.  Translation, you’ll never get any. 

Do learn to love what she loves about kissing.  There are a lot of nerve endings in your lips, allowing for sensations you may be ignoring.  Close your eyes, and let the kiss be about the kiss. 

Don’t forget to kiss her when she’s naked!  Kissing shouldn’t be just a tool to get into her pants.  It’s an act of intimacy, and will make her feel relaxed and cared for during penetration.  Plus, when you’re in the throes of passion your sense of touch is heightened, and this kiss will be felt through your entire body.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Good Touch, Bad Touch - How to Be Better Than Her Vibrator
























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Women like touch.  Just look around and you can see the evidence.  Women hug each other, they kiss on the cheek.  Every time a woman sees a baby she reaches out to hold its hand and tickle it.  Touching gives her feelings of warmth and comfort.  She uses it to both show and feel affection.  Men use touch to have sex. 

Obviously, that is an oversimplification of the issue, but women do show physical affection in a nonsexual way on far more occasions than men do.  She loves to have her skin against your skin, even if it’s not in an arousing way.  Barring any childhood trauma, it is an incredibly soothing sensation for her.  Serotonin is actually released into her brain, causing her to feel closer to you.  The closer she feels to you, the more she wants to have sex with you.  Appreciate the effect that has on her, and you can learn to appreciate it yourself.  Yeah, you’ll probably get a hard on, but it is sort of impolite to rub it on her leg when she’s not expecting it. 

Since the day a woman first started needing a bra, she’s been fighting off the hands of men.  Boys used to graze her breast while pretending to reach for a pencil, handsy high school boys were always desperately trying to put their hands places she wasn’t sure of, and when they got old enough to drink – well, you get the point.  Gratuitous grabbing of her private areas feels to her like objectification, not affection.  Her instinct is to react defensively.  I know it gets very difficult not to manhandle your woman all the time,  especially if it’s been a while, but try to control yourself a bit.  Being patient is a way better method to getting sex than aggressive sexual advances. 

 Desperation is never a turn on. Once she’s naked, she has the same need for touch as when she was clothed.  If all she needed was to get off, there are many accessible mechanical devices out there that are far superior to you on that front.  The physical contact with her partner is far more important than the measure of her orgasms.  It’s your touch that she misses when you’re gone, not your penis.  That is what keeps her coming back for more.  So worry less about your technique, and more about the enjoyment of the experience.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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She Said... You Heard... Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Everyone has heard that men are from Mars, and women are from Venus.  Unfortunately, most men don’t fully appreciate the difference between the languages on Mars and Venus.  Sure, you’re using the same words, but they have quite different meanings.  Below are some common miscommunications between the genders. 

She said:  “Kiss me.”

You heard:  “Kiss me, hump my leg, and grab my breasts.”

What she means:  Okay, maybe occasionally she does mean that, but you should know when she just means, “Kiss me.”  Kissing is a wonderful intimacy builder, and it’s often overlooked.  I know, since the day you first noticed that girls are awesome, you’ve been dreaming of day you’d have a woman you were allowed to touch all you wanted.  However, if you’re tweaking her nipples and grabbing her crotch every time she leans in for a kiss, you’re going to desensitize her!  You will lose those as tricks as ways to get her really steamed up.  Sometimes kissing is just kissing.  Learn to appreciate this as a showing of affection, not an opportunity to cop a feel. 

She said:  “Be gentle.”

You heard:  “Awkwardly fumble around my breasts and knead me with your member.”

What she means:  Be gentle!  The idea of gentle is completely different for men than for women.  This comes naturally to her, but it is usually a learned behavior for men.  Think about how she touches you, her gentle strokes sending electric shocks through your body.  Her feather-light touches are like a sensory overload.  Mimic this in your treatment of her.  Pretend you’re tickling her with your finger tips or your lips.  Not only does it send warm fuzzies through her body, but it allows you to really experience her flesh. 

She said:  “Do whatever you want with me.”

You Heard: “Here’s the green light to stick it in my back door!”

What she means:  This is a common miscommunication between men and women.  When a woman puts the ball in your court to guide the sexual encounter, she is not asking to be defiled in every way your male brain has conceived.  She is actually asking you to take care of her.  If you immediately ram it in her rear while pulling her hair and demanding she call you “daddy,” it is a violation of the trust she put in you.  As sexual intimacy develops, so can the tricks about which you’ve been fantasizing.  However, early in the relationship, be respectful of your partner’s comfort zone.  If you abuse her trust, you’ll never progress in relationship – physical or emotional.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





Click the Banner below to visit the " Love Doctor " website and view this and many more products to help you improve your Lovelife and Relationships, the site is packed with lots of books on all aspects of Lovemaking and Relationships !