by Michael Webb, Founder -
VirtuosoLover.com
When you were a
kid, your parents and grandparents probably told you to “look people in
the eye” when you talked to them. Looking elsewhere when speaking to
someone made you look disinterested or weak. In most Asian cultures, it
is considered rude to stare into someone’s eyes, as direct eye contact
is too familiar. Despite different cultural reactions, the gaze bears
significant weight in human relations. It certainly speaks volumes
about you as a lover.
The way you touch
and kiss her only communicates so much. When you look into someone’s
eyes, it opens up your true thoughts. When your wife or girlfriend gets
all gussied up, she can see the “wowza” look you give her. When you’ve
made her cry, she can tell how sorry you are. When you are getting
dizzy with lust, it certainly reads all over your face. She loves to
see what you genuinely feel.
This access to your
inner workings is the exact reason why men avoid eye contact in intimate
situations. Men are socialized to be strong. In situations where they
feel strong –for example, in business – eye contact is not frightening.
However, in instances where emotion is being discussed, a man is not as
comfortable opening himself up. The world has taught you that emotions
are a woman thing, and women things are weak. I hate to tell you this,
but on varying levels, you’ve probably bought into it. Therefore, it’s
easier to look down or away in intimate situations, but that is an act
of defense, not one of openness.
Studies have shown
that couples who share long gazes tend to be closer. Staring into one
another’s eyes builds intimacy. It’s why Eastern cultures consider it
rude when it’s between strangers – one does not build that kind of
intimacy outside of close relationships – and why Western culture see it
as a sign of weakness to avoid it – the I’m-not-scared-of-you thing.
However you view it, you expose yourself through your eyes. You make
yourself vulnerable. Making yourself vulnerable to your partner shows
that you’re willing to open yourself up to her.
Keeping your eyes
locked on your significant other makes her feel valued. I’m not talking
about staring at her chest; I’m talking about looking at her.
Look at her like everything else around you has disappeared. Look at
her while you stroke her back or play with her hair. It shows that you
see her as a person, not just a place to put your penis.
About the author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.
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